Friday, January 29, 2010

Changes Create Writing Opportunities




The last several months finances have been tight (translated to non-existent in ordinary speak). The urge to focus on the dollar signs made it tough to give my writing the priority it deserves. Finances are still squeezing through at this moment, but a change in my thoughts and attitudes have made a huge difference that will bear fruit in the near future.

4 Tips for Changing your Writing Direction


    1. Re-evaluate the path that you are on. It is so easy to get caught up in the things that we want to do with our writing that we miss God. Taking time out of my schedule to really talk to and LISTEN to God allowed me to see where I had gotten off track.


    2. Be honest with yourself and with the others in your family. My husband may want me to be a millionaire author overnight but that will not make it a reality. When I sat down with him and showed him the reality of the finances it made it possible to develop a plan that could carry us into the future.


    3. Focus on the things that matter. I desire to have a ministry that touches the hearts and lives of others through words but as soon as money becomes the driving force behind my words then the ministry will get lost. People can sense when you are focused on the money or when you are focused on them.


    4. Be open to change. The most dangerous hindrance to progress is the refusal to change. “We’ve never done it that way.” Change may be a complete reversal of direction, a short detour or even a short cut. You will never know unless you are willing to try. I had to change what I was writing in order to begin writing what I needed to be writing. As soon as I made the change, three new opportunities opened up.

Getting to where you want to go comes naturally when you know where it is that you are going. The trouble with life is that things change. Several years ago, we were using a map to find our way back from a concert in Pensacola to our condo in Gulf Shores. The map showed a road that would cut our time in half and ended right in front of the condo. We could have plunged forward according to the map but we chose to allow the circumstances of the reality change our direction. It seems that the map did not mention that the road ended in a bay just across from the condo. We could see the condo but we could not reach it from that point.

Life will have dead ends, U-turns and other changes that force us to adjust or crash. Evaluating my writing journey allowed me to make the changes that have pushed me from where I was into the possibilities of tomorrow.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Be Still, Be Quiet and Listen




In his introduction to the Book of Nahum, Eugene Peterson in "The Message" writes, "God's characteristic way of working is in quietness and through prayer." He goes on to say, "If we are conditioned to respond to noise and size, we will miss God's word and action."

Goals are statements of action. They motivate us, sweeping out of our lives worthless activities while giving clear and concise directions of what we want to accomplish. Yet, they too, can become another "have to" exerting pressure while devouring energy.

"Be still, be quiet and listen" were words God gave me as I wrote an opening prayer for delivery to a women's retreat several years ago. They were so powerful at the time, and they still capture my attention when I enter my quiet time with God. Although I still bring my prayers of concern, petitions and thanks, it is when I sit still, allow my mind to become quiet and listen that I am flooded with ideas and topics I am compelled to develop and write about. It is in His word, I find consolation and peace.

In the quiet of a cave, God spoke to Elijah; in the stillness of the night He came to Samuel. If our lives are so full of activity there is no quiet time, our goals will become tedious and joyless. It is in those quiet times with God that our horizons are broadened, our goals clarified and our resolve strengthened. As I listen, I not only discover answers to my questions, but hear the questions God asks of me.

In the third chapter of Lamentations, "The Message", we read, "It's a good thing to quietly hope for help from God." It goes on to say, "When life is heavy and hard to take, go off by yourself. Enter the silence. Bow in prayer. Don't ask questions. Wait for hope to appear. Don't run from trouble. Take it full-face. The 'worst' is never the worst."

Bring your goals to God and quietly listen to His responses.

Marlene Anderson, MA, LMHC, NCC
www.MarleneAnderson-Focus.com
www.focuswithmarlene.blogspot.com
www.healingheartsandmind.blogspot.com

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Platform Building 204: Should You Blog From Your Website?





Sleeping Beauty
© Walt Disney

In one of my favorite scenes in Walt Disney's Sleeping Beauty, two good fairies fought over the color of Princess Aurora's ballgown. Deciding whether to blog from your website or from a blogging host site (like http://wordpress.com or http://blogspot.com) may leave you feeling as undecided as the color of that ballgown. Pink? Or blue?

One advantage to blogging from your website is that links to your blog drive your website higher in the search engines. If you have a common name or write in a well-populated genre, there's a lot of competition for the top spot in a search (see my Name of the Game post). In that case, your website needs all the moxie you can give it.

On the other hand, using a blog hosting site in addition to have a website will cause two sites, rather than one, to come up from a search of your name. I once worked at a retail store where employees were expected to appear busy at all times. I think, sometimes, writers labor under similar expectations when maintaining an Internet presence. Having two sites pop up could serve to make you seem more busy. And linking your website and blog will transfer some of the benefits of your blog's ranking to your website, anyway.

Ease of operation shouldn't really enter into the decision, because blogging software exists that will install to your site in minutes and is user friendly, at least from what I've read online. Do your homework and choose the software that's right for you. Before you buy, always do a search to check for feedback online. It's probably no harder to navigate installation of a website blog than to maneuver a template available through (or for use in) a blog hosting site.

In the end, your decision will probably come down to preference. Pink? Or blue? 
 
I won't even try to go into all the technical ins and outs of the options and software available out there. Others have done so with great knowledge. Here are a few links to articles by knowledgeable folks qualified to ponder such technical questions. Me, I'm an artist. ;o) Still, I want to at least raise the question for you.

http://www.searchengineguide.com/mike-moran/where-should-i-host-my-blog.php

http://www.blogcatalog.com/discuss/entry/should-i-use-typepad-or-host-blog-on-my-website

http://entrepreneurs.about.com/b/2007/11/13/should-i-blog-on-my-own-website-or-a-blog-hosting-service.htm


Like so many other things we've touched upon, only you can decide whether to blog from your website or a blog hosting service, or even whether to blog at all. But that's next week's question.

Homework

Decide whether you'll blog from your website or a blog hosting site, assuming you plan (or at least think you might want) to blog.

Do you have an opinion on this subject? If so, please post a comment below.


Saturday, January 23, 2010

Driving The Writer’s Highway

In 1991, Bob and I took a trip to Los Angeles. The day was bright, the traffic swift, and we passed the hours with a deep, enjoyable conversation. However, neither one of us noticed when we rushed past our exit.


Then Bob spoke up, “Michael,” he asked, “do you know where we are?” I looked around and realized, however sheepishly, that I drove well past our exit. Then we discovered a greater problem: there was no place to turn around. For miles the highway offered no hope of navigating back to our destination so I continued to drive.

Eventually we managed to escape the maze of the Los Angeles highway system and made it to the convention center. Nevertheless, the damage was done and we missed a good portion of the conference.

So, what’s the point? It’s found in Proverbs 19:2 (NIV): “It is not good to have zeal without knowledge, nor to be hasty and miss the way.”

As a writer, I want to offer the words of my heart to a reading audience, to use the vehicle of publishing as the means of reaching beyond my limited circle. With my destination in mind, I rush headlong into the highway of this pursuit and forget that there are road signs set to help me make it to the goal. If I don't pay attention I will overshoot my exit and miss the opportunity that God wants to provide.

The first road sign: don’t have “zeal without knowledge.” All of the excitement of writing, along with the prospect of publishing, fills the heart and drives the motivation. However, without knowledge—that is, without the exacting discipline of honing your craft—you will miss every potential opportunity.

The second road sign: don’t be “hasty and miss the way.” I remember finishing the initial draft of my first manuscript. After 150,000+ words, I thought it was done. I presented it to an editor and, despite her kindness, she soundly rejected it. Then she asked me, “Have you re-read it?” Why would I need to do that? I was hasty to get it accepted when it was not yet acceptable.

Don’t let zeal drive you beyond the point of your opportunity, and don’t be hasty. You must take the necessary time to sharpen the writer’s craft. Slow down and read, then re-read, your own work and do so with a critical eye. There is an “exit” coming. That “exit” will be your opportunity to use the gift of writing. However, you must be ready and paying attention. Temper your zeal with knowledge and make sure that you don’t miss the mark in your own haste.

©2010
Rev. Michael Duncan

Friday, January 22, 2010

Choose This Day – Blessing or Curse




One choice stands between you and your success. It may be that the one choice leads to another choice and that continues for a while down the road. Everything in life hinges on that one choice.


Last year I chose to finish writing my novel and then let a few friends read the unedited version. One of them was so inspired by my completed manuscript that he chose to write his own. I encouraged him on his journey but fell behind on my own. He completed his manuscript, edited it, and then stumbled over a publisher at karate class. He now has a published book because he CHOSE to finish that manuscript.


Last summer I saw a new paper on a stand in the gas station. I thought it looked interesting and considered how I could contribute to the publication. I chose to call the number for putting in an advertisement and ended up talking with the editor. He was very excited about what I could bring to the table. After my first submission he offered me a regular column (on the subject of my choosing). One of my goals for 2009 was to have a column and because I CHOSE to make one phone call that goal has been met. Even greater, he plans to plant more small papers in the region and wants to use my column in all of them so by the end of 2010 I will be syndicated.


Last week I was lead to go on a fast. The first three days I did not eat any sweets. The second three days I only ate raw fruits and vegetables. The last three days I intended to have a full fast (and take in nothing but liquids). I CHOSE to share my journey with my accountability group. The first day of the full fast my brain demanded food. There were two things that kept me from eating (besides the fact that I knew I would not die). The first thing was that I committed to my group that I was doing the fast. The second thing was that eating or not eating was a choice I could make at any time. For three days I CHOSE not to eat and I made that choice one moment at a time.


During that fast I came to understand that every aspect of my life is dictated by a choice. The career path that I want for my writing has not happened because I choose to do something other than write when I could be writing. My weight loss has not happened because I choose to eat when I could go for a walk. My financial situation has not turned the corner because I choose to do nothing rather than something that might bring in more income.


The key to all success comes down to making the right choice.

    1. Understand where you are going so you will know which choices to make to help you get to that place.


    2. Look honestly at the choices sitting in front of you right now. Which one will get you closer to where you want to be?


    3. Surround yourself with people that will lift you up and encourage your journey. Moving down the right path can come with some tough (and even a little odd to the world) choices.


    4. Keep moving. The right choice will always involve action of some kind. The action may be prayer and study or it may be movement, but action is a part of the right path so stay moving.


Avoiding choices may seem easier than stepping up, but the truth is that you never avoid choices. Not choosing is a choice in itself. Right now there are two choices before you – blessings and cursings. Are you ready to choose blessings for your life?

Thursday, January 21, 2010

How to Make and Follow Goal Statements



Goals can get lost in the daily grind of life. A written goal statement enables us to stay focused on what we want to accomplish and why. Because it has already been defined, it supplies on-going motivation. Revisiting written goals daily keeps us on track and helps establish necessary discipline and evaluation.

When we have prayerfully committed our lives to God, our goal statements become the tools to accompilsh what God has destined for us.

Putting The Goal Together:

Goal Statement:
- Goals need to be personal, realistic and obtainable
- Goal statements need to be specific and say what you want to accomplish
- Goals must be of value to you and in alignment with what you believe is God's plan for your life
- Goals must be measurable

Time:
- Set a deadline. When do I want to accomplish this?
- If this is a long term goal, break it down into small, time measurable steps

Obstacles:
- What obstacles might keep you from following through with your goal?
- Obstacles include time management, motivation, current lifestyle, behavioral management, finances, social commitments, family responsibilities, personality traits and problem solving skills. Anything that can keep you from obtaining success is a potential obstacle.
- Develop strategies to overcome obstacles. "If this happens, I will...."

Plan of Action:
- A plan of action will define how you will accomplish your goal. Put down all the steps that are needed.

Benefits:
- What benefit will I get as a result of this goal?
- Rewards received MUST be PERSONALand SATISFYING.
- Is the "risk" involved worth the "pay off"? If this is in alignment with God's will for our lives, we will experience peace in the middle of the struggle and hard work.

Tracking:
- Evaluate your progress and the goal itself
- Does it need to be refined? Is it still important?

Commitment:
- I commit myself to this target goal for this time period.
- Sign and date it.

Imagine it:
- Close your eyes and see yourself when the goal has been reached. Imagine the feelings of achievement, growth and strength. Visualization draws you toward the completion of your goal. Visualize your goal accomplished every day.

Affirmations:
- Turn your goal statements into affirmations that you repeat every day all day
- Repeat affirmations "as though they were already true". Example:
"I am a published author"

Celebrate the completion of your goal with people who love and appreciate you!

Marlene Anderson, MA, LMHC, NCC
www.MarleneAnderson-Focus.com
www.focuswithmarlene.blogspot.com
www.healingheartsandmind.blogspot.com

Monday, January 18, 2010

Platform Building 203: Plan Your Website



If you've ever house-hunted, you might have received advice to come up with a "wish list" of features to look for in your future home. Well, website building is much the same. Just as no two people will list the same "must-haves" for a new home, no two authors want the same website either. And that's as it should be.

It's not my purpose here to tell you exactly how to construct your website, but rather to suggest specific features to consider. I've focused, for this post, on pages most writers will prefer to have. My list, gleaned largely from my own reconnaissance missions to other author's websites and through building my own, is not meant to be comprehensive, but rather to get you thinking. The best teacher, of course, is experience, so roll up your sleeves and get started! But, first you may want to go on a reconnaissance mission of your own....

Decide now the particular feel your website will have. It should inspire a mood that will help others attach to you and your work. For example, as a fantasy and historical romance author, a poet and a vocalist, I use a picture of a bird in flight and beautiful colors to bring visitors into my world. Click here, if you want to take a look. What about you? Will you set a contemporary, Victorian, edgy, or classical tone for your website? Take your time, and have fun finding just the right template, background and colors to give the feel you want. You can often use pictures for free from http://morguefile.com and by searching the Commons at http://flickr.com. Be sure and read the instructions to ascertain correct usage and any needed attributions (photographer credits).

Common Website Pages


Home -- This almost always contains a picture of the Author (you). For some camera-shy types (and I include myself in your number), this is bad news. Get over it and get that amazing headshot that will present just the picture of yourself that you want to convey. Here are some of the other features found on a home page: a brief greeting, the author's book cover, synopsis, endorsements and buy links, a book trailer, a link to podcasts, favorite links, a link to the author's publisher, an email button, a sign-in or register link to the author's forum, a book signing schedule, news updates, blog links and follow buttons for Twitter and Facebook.

About the Author -- The tone you take on this page will depend on your personality and writing. Some writers have a natural flare for humor, and so they entertain while describing themselves. If you want to see a bio page like this, go to Michelle Griep's website here. Others may describe themselves more formally, as I do, here. Or, perhaps you'll share a combination of personal and professional information in an informal style, as Lynnette Bonner does, here. You could provide details of your writing process, as K. M. Weiland does, here. It's up to you. How do you want others to perceive you? What are you willing to share about yourself, and what will you keep private? Besides your biography, you might include press kit information about yourself and links where others may connect with you online.

Books or Writings -- Of course, book covers, back cover copy, tag lines, endorsements, links to sample chapters and to purchase the author's books will all feature here. Links to blogs and to archived and online articles by the author might show up on this page, as well.


News -- Here's where an author can post about the journey from inception of an idea, the research and writing process, progress toward publication, and on through promotion of a book. This is a great place to drum up enthusiasm. Lisa Grace does a great job of this on her blog here.

Contact -- I have a form on my blog that readers can fill out to connect with me. I receive a message at an email address I provide. You can go here to take a look at my form. Others use a simple button that brings up a default email software window. To see this, go here. Others just provide their email address somewhere on their website. If you decide to do this, be careful to protect yourself from spam by leaving a gap somewhere in the address or type out the @ as [at].

Links -- If you provide helpful links for others, they may remember your website as a resource and return to it to click on your links. This saves them from having to bookmark the links. It's a great way to get traffic to your site, and as a bonus, you have your favorite links right there for your own use.

Blog -- Many authors include a blog on their website. I'll take a look at some of the pros and cons of blogs attached to websites or made through separate blog hosts next week.

Homework

Make a "wish list" for your own website. Use this post as a guide, but also take a look at various author websites, especially those for authors in your particular genre or genres. Brainstorm on your own to identify what you need a website to do for you. Meet me here again next Tuesday as we take a look at blog pages versus blogs kept on external blog sites.

Do you have anything to chip in to this discussion of website pages and their content? Questions?

Friday, January 15, 2010

Answers and Solutions to Getting it Done



I have the answer.


The other day I was taking my “God walk” (where I can get away from the noise of the house and the kids) when I told Him that I needed the answer. Things have not been going the way I wanted them to be going and it was time that He fixed it all. The more I talked out the situation the more I realized that He had already fixed it.


I walked back into my home refreshed and aware that I already had the answer. The problem is not in knowing what to do, but it is doing what I know. There is no way I will ever have a top-selling novel if I never get my novel published. And my novel will never be published as long as it sits incomplete in a folder on my shelf.
The answer to my writing desires comes from my consistency in my writing actions. I have the tools that I need to get to where I want to be but I have to use those tools in order to get there.


Five Tips for Getting to the Answer

    1. Accountability – the more people I share my goals and plans with then the harder it is to go back on those plans. Joining a group that meets on a weekly basis will help me to take actionable steps to obtain those goals.


    2. Prayer – the tools may exist in me already but I will never be consistent in their use without the Tool Maker. Five minutes a day in prayer and conversation with God will change your life.


    3. Motivation – knowing the why behind the action makes the action easier. When I focus on writing to help others instead of just writing then the motivation to help drives my words.


    4. Determination – consistency does not show up on its own. There are days when it has to be forced out like that last little bit of tooth paste in the tube. Determining to do what needs to be done regardless of whether the world does what it should will help me stay consistent in my walk.


    5. Daily Change – nothing happens overnight. Take one step each day and continue to take that one step each day until that one step becomes a way of life.

The problem in my own walk comes from my consistency. The answer has been with me for more years than I want to admit. I have just been stubborn in doing the things I know to do. What are those little things (or big things) that you are avoiding that you already know are the answers to your situations?

Thursday, January 14, 2010

A Bigger Picture


Goal setting is not exclusive to just one part of our lives. Besides requiring we know our current behavior patterns, payoffs and motivations, making successful goals requires consideration and the elimination of as many obstacles as possible. One obstacle seldom considered is how a goal will impact family, relationships, finances, time spent with God, and physical and mental health. Attaining goals at the cost of strained relationships and pocket books, broken families and stressed-out health often proves less than satisfying.

While all this preliminary work may seem laborsome, it enables us to create the best plan of action. For those who have built a house, you know there are certain site prerequisites required before you can even design a house plan, make a blueprint or get necessary financing. You can have the most desirable lot, but if there are too many site limitations or restrictions, you may be unable to build on it. You can have the most desirable goal, but if there are too many obstacles or you haven't taken the time to prepare for it, your plan of action may become derailed.

Before you put together a formal goal plan, consider some of the obstacles you might face. Have you factored in time with your family? How will you negotiate wants and needs? What are you letting go of in your current schedule in order to replace it with new goal requirements? Will your time be so structured you won't have any down time or energy left to exercise or eat properly? Are you prepared to budget financial costs to achieve your goal? Do you have a support system in place to help motivate and cheer you on?

Next week, I will finish this series on goal setting with an exercise on writing a formal goal that includes a goal statement, time period, obstacles, plan of action, motivation and evaluations.

Marlene Anderson
www.MarleneAnderson-Focus.com
www.focuswithmarlene.blogspot.com
www.healingheartandmind.blogspot.com

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Platform Building 202: Should You Have a Website?


 

As a boy I believed I could make myself invisible. I'm not sure that I ever could, but I certainly had the ability to pass unnoticed. ~ Terence Stamp


Do you, as a writer, need a website? Of course, you'll need to answer this question for yourself, but let me give you a little food for thought. What assumptions would you make about an employment agency that had no website? A career coach? A publicity firm? An agent? A publisher?  A bookstore? Well, at one time or another, you as a writer might fill some or all of these roles.

In these days of social networking as much of the world goes online, a writer can't afford to become invisible. Most publishers these days want writers to present a strong online image. In the weeks to come, we'll look at various ways to develop such a presence. I recommend you start with putting together your own website.

A website communicates a sense of stability. Its very existence shows your commitment to your writing career. It allows you to provide information about yourself to potential agents or publishers. It gives you a base from which to network with other writers. It can even draw a readership to you in advance of marketing your book. A website affords you the opportunity to dispense information about yourself and your upcoming projects. Among other things, you can use your website to sell your books, schedule speaking engagements and generate interest in book signings, giveaways or other promotional events. The possibilities are endless for what you can do with a website, your own little home-away-from-home in cyberspace.

First you'll need to obtain a "lot" on which to build your "house," also known as a url or website address. Several sites sell these, which you can find through an online search for domain providers or by going to 100 Best Free Web Space or Small Business Domain. Basically, You can either borrow space within someone else's domain or purchase your own, usually for a nominal fee which renews annually. There are benefits and disadvantages to either approach. I chose to purchase my own domain because I think it looks more professional to have the website address of http://janalynvoigt.com over one that reads http://janalynvoigt.(insert domain name here).com. I purchased my own name and also WaySinger.com, which I've set up to redirect to my http://janalynvoigt.com website.

As with erecting a real-life home, you can choose to do it yourself, you can hire someone to build a shell and do the finish work yourself, or you can contract the whole thing out. Your costs depend on the method you choose. If you will build your own website from scratch, you know more about programming than I ever will, and God bless you. If you decide to hire the work out entirely, remember to do your homework and check references for those you hire. Some people will purchase a domain and then forward their blog to it as a free way to get web hosting. The link I provided, above, to 100 Best Free Web Space, covers such things and also links to a number of informational articles.

If you want to go the route I chose and purchase a "shell" or template, I can advise you with regard to the domain provider I chose: Go Daddy. You can find free templates easily, but if you use one of them you will need to pay for web hosting. My template came with included web hosting for less than $100 a year, with several payment plans available, through Website Tonight. Take a look at my website for an example of one of the many templates available. You can add additional pages, as well, including a blog, and even receive your email to your blog address. More on such things next time.

I believe building your own website is one of the first things a writer can and should take to establish an online presence. Don't delay on this. So many writers let this very important step languish far too long.


Homework

Assuming you're sold on having your own website, decide the method you'll take to make it happen, do your research, and choose your domain name(s). You'll want to own your own name, as well as other variants and misspellings, if you think you might be difficult to find online. Don't go overboard on this. Also, refer to my post about naming yourself as an author here. I'll meet you back here next Tuesday for advice on what to include in your website.

Do you agree with my assessment about the need for a website? Can you shed light on some of the methods for obtaining a website?

© 2010 Janalyn Voigt

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Thin-Skinned Faith


I remember a conversation I had with a man who sought the ministry. He opened up his heart to me. He related a wealth of personal attacks and conflicts with one person or another. He finally asked what to do. “You have to develop a thick skin if you want to preach the gospel,” I told him.

I find this truth to be real in the world of writing. Any endeavor for the Lord is filled with the challenges of personal attacks, failed moments, hope deferred, and a host of other difficulties that seek to crack the shield of faith. As an aspiring author I face the constant pressure to give up at each rejection, to surrender to the despair that is desperate to steal my hope.

The question is: how does a person react?

King Saul reacted: “As they danced, they sang: ‘Saul has slain his thousands, and David his tens of thousands.’ Saul was very angry; this refrain galled him. ‘They have credited David with tens of thousands,’ he thought, ‘but me with only thousands. What more can he get but the kingdom?’” (1 Samuel 18:7-8)

From this point on, Saul pressed his frustration to the point of psychotic jealousy. He sought to kill David, he threatened to kill his own son. And finally, in his madness, he lost the kingdom. Such is the way of thin-skinned faith. Unable to look beyond the frustration and anger, beyond the disappointment that comes from rejections, the thin-skinned Christian will ultimately lose their grip on God’s purpose. As one faithful pastor told me, “If you still have a feeling left to be hurt, you can bet on the fact that the devil will find a way to hurt it.”

In contrast, consider the Apostle Paul: “It is true that some preach Christ out of envy and rivalry, but others out of goodwill… But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice.” (Philippians 1:15-18)

Paul’s dilemma came from opposition to his message. There were those who sought to cause him trouble and to steal his “audience” by preaching Christ. Paul simply rejoiced. He turned his difficulty over to God and trusted that God had the power to overcome whatever trouble the opposition offered. Paul had developed a thick skin. He learned that no matter the challenge or the opposition God is still sovereign. He could endure because God still ruled.

Hang on to God’s purpose—His plan. He is the one who has called and gifted you to do the work and He will be the one to open the doors when the time comes. If you remain thin-skinned you will ultimately surrender to the hurt feelings and despair. One rejection or one hundred is not the end to God’s plan. God is never frustrated by man, the devil or anything at all. This is the promise: “You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you” (Isaiah 26:3). God has promised to keep you in perfect peace as long as you’re mind is steadfast and trusting in Christ.

©2010 Rev. Michael Duncan

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

I want it all!


I want to do it all. I love the challenge of new things and want to experience doing them. I struggle with prioritizing my efforts in the day, because a part of me wants to be impulsive and follow the dictates of my feelings at the moment. Can I have that flexibility and still balance it with disciplined time management in following my life goals?

For me, lists work very well. Yet while a "to do" list allows me to check off the things I need to accomplish in a day, unless I have long-term goals in place, my goals simply become an on-going lifetime accomplishment of completing my "to do" list. That becomes pretty meaningless and shallow over time.

Daily motivation is important in replacing habits as old habits have a strong pull. Sometimes the momentum of following a plan of action will keep me on course, such as going to college to finish a degree. But when outside forces are not available as the motivational force, I am responsible for creating that momentum. I can accomplish that by reading my goal statement every day, actively visualizing my goal during the day, repeating affirmations, and recording my progress. Desire alone is not enough. There are too many emotional payoffs and baggage to keep me from staying on course.

Discipline is creating structure. It operates on the principle that we make choices and for every choice there is a consequence. When we are tired, our motivation is simply to let down, get comfortable and vegetate. Yet, we can spend hours in unconscious vegetation when a few minutes of a deep relaxation exercise may be enough. We choose how to maximize our down time, just as we can choose how to maximize our work habits. This does not mean we simply live by a regimented schedule with no room for flexibility; the ability to be impulsive at times balances the structure we put in place. Both are important.

If you followed last week's suggestions, you are more aware of your current habits, their payoffs and the areas in your life where some concrete goals might be beneficial. This week, take the challenge to explore your motivational patterns. What motivates you and when? What activities so totally absorb you that time has no dimension? How can you transfer some of that motivation to jobs that require a more concerted effort? Often, it only takes a slight shift in our thinking to make such jobs more enjoyable. That shift in thinking can be a powerful motivational force.

When we have learned the payoff we receive for old habits and understand better what has motivated us in the past, we are then ready to proceed to making some concrete goals. Next week, I will outline a basic goal statement that can be applied to any situation.

Marlene Anderson, MA, LMHC, NCC
Author, "A Love so Great, A Grief so Deep"
www.MarleneAnderson-Focus.com
www.focuswithmarlene.blogspot.com
www.healingheartandmind.blogspot.com

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Platform Building 201: The Name of the Game



What's in a name? That which we call a rose

By any other name would smell as sweet.

~William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet

 
Words have meaning and names have power. ~Author Unknown
 
The above two quotes seem to counter one another. So, who's right? With all respect to the Bard, as writers, we know words have meaning and power, and names are made up of words. If names weren't important, publishers would not decide the title of a book with such care. How much more important is your own name than the name of a book?

A book's title describes it in the same way your name describes you. A good title draws attention, is memorable and piques a reader's curiosity. So, what about you?  Does your name help or hinder your writing career?
 
Does your name draw the right kind of attention?
 
People's fates are simplified by their names. ~Elias Canetti


If you are a romance writer with a name like Susan Hart, you're ahead of the game. Susan Hazard has, perhaps, a little more work to do in reaching an audience. Your reader may not make a conscious connection, and I'm not suggesting the author's name is the most important reason a reader decides to buy a book, but why add to the obstacles already before you as a writer? Make sure your name is palatable, or at least that it does not dredge up any negative connotations for a potential purchaser.
 
Is your name memorable?

Fate tried to conceal him by naming him Smith. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.


James Smith and Mary Johnson may want to separate themselves from the pack of others with their names. Why? The familiarity of common names can make them forgettable. Or perhaps your name runs to the opposite end of the spectrum, being hard to pronounce or spell. My own name falls into this category. The last thing you want is for a reader to have trouble finding your books because of a forgettable, hard to pronounce, or difficult to spell name.

Does your name pique curiosity?

Names, once they are in common use, quickly become mere sounds, their etymology being buried, like so many of the earth's marvels, beneath the dust of habit. ~Salman Rushdie


While my last name is hard to spell, my first makes people curious. How did I get such an unusual name? If your name sparks interest, use it to your advantage. If it doesn't, consider adopting one that does.

Does your name suit your genre?

Name is a fence and within it you are nameless. ~Samuli Paronen



It's not uncommon for men who write within genres that cater to a female readership to take female pen names. Similarly, women who write in genres with a male readership sometimes take male pen names. Another way to keep gender low key is to use initials or gender-neutral names.

Is your name permanent?

Bob Marley isn't my name. I don't even know my name yet. ~Bob Marley


Unmarried women writers sometimes encounter a problem when they marry. If they take on their husband's last name, they lose the identity they've built. Some women solve this by tacking on the husbands last name. For instance, Mary Jones becomes Mary Jones Marshall. Or Mary Jones sometimes just remains Mary Jones, whatever her legal name might become.


Solutions

If your name presents a problem, what will you do about it? You can change your name, use only certain parts of it, or configure it in new ways. Some people have strong feelings about keeping their real names and won't consider writing under a pen name. Or perhaps you don't mind a pen name but your spouse or other family member objects. There are still things you can do.

Pen Name. A pen name can afford you privacy and give you a name that will help your career. It can also complicate your life and make you harder to connect with in these days of social networking. I suggest you only go this route if your real name is a real problem.

Use Your Middle Name. Perhaps Agnes Smith has a wonderful and memorable middle name like Cinderella. She could drop the Agnes and become Cinderella Smith.

Use Initials. As mentioned above, the use of initials helps disguise your gender, if that's an issue.

Create a Brand Name. You can create a brand name you link closely with your real name. This works something like a nickname, which you go by in addition to your "real" name. This is the route I chose since my first and last names present spelling challenges but my husband preferred I keep my real name. After much introspection and prayer (and with a lot of brain storming), I came up with the brand name of WaySinger. It's perfect for me because I'm a singer and songwriter as well as an author. As a Christian with a teaching gift, I also point the Way for others. I like that my brand name fits with DawnSinger, book one in my Tales of Faeraven trilogy. I like it, too, because it's easy to remember and easy to spell.

If you decide to create your own brand name, give yourself time to find just the right one. Save yourself a headache and check first that a website is available for your chosen brand name. You can do this easily at GoDaddy.com. I own waysinger.com and redirect traffic from there to janalynvoigt.com. That way, I'm assured others will be able to find my website whether or not they can spell my real name.

Homework


Review your options and decide what name you want to grace the cover of your books. If you choose to create a brand name, reserve the website now.  

Next week we'll go into some of the whys and hows of owning a website.

How about you? Which of the naming options will you choose? I'd love to know.